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The Reckless Years: A Marriage made in Chemical Heaven (Frank's Travel Memoirs Book 7) Kindle Edition

3.8 out of 5 stars 160 ratings

“...an explosive corker of a book...” "
... a fascinating and heart-warming tale which is a wonderful read...”
"...written with a no-holds-barred honesty that's often surprising..." “...searingly painful, painfully funny, often poignant and always entertaining...”

When Frank's mother dies on his wedding day, his life spirals into a hopeless existence of drink, drugs and depression. How will his marriage to his new bride Madge survive? How will he keep his travel writing career afloat? And how will he cope when a vengeful customs official threatens his business in India?

“A memoir about a troubled marriage formed on reckless indulgence being rebuilt offers a fascinating narrative arc. Like all good biographies, ‘The Reckless Years’ is as engaging and dramatic as fiction.”
~ Scott Pack, Harper Collins

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Frank Kusy is a professional travel writer with over thirty years experience in the field. He has written guides to India, Thailand, Burma, Malaysia, Singapore and Indonesia. Of his first work, the travelogue Kevin and I in India (1985), the Sunday Tribune wrote: “Relentlessly honest, refreshingly uncontrived, this diary really works!” Born in England (of Polish-Hungarian parents), Frank left Cardiff University for a career in journalism and worked for a while at the Financial Times. India is his first love, the only country he knows which improves on repeated viewings. He still visits for business and for pleasure at least once a year.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B06XBQX4CB
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Grinning Bandit Books
  • Accessibility ‏ : ‎ Learn more
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ 25 Feb. 2017
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 549 KB
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 253 pages
  • Page Flip ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Book 7 of 8 ‏ : ‎ Frank's Travel Memoirs
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Born and raised in the fog-shrouded streets of 1960s London, and with more than 30 years of travel writing experience under his belt, Frank Kusy is a SUNDAY TRIBUNE RECOMMENDED AUTHOR and a four-time Gold Medal Winner on the Harper Collins Authonomy site. He has been awarded the AIA Awesome Indies Seal of Excellence for his book 'Rupee Millionaires', and has been a featured author on several promotional sites, including BookBub, Pixel of Ink, Indie Book Bargains and FreeBooksy. His books have received international press acclaim, and have made the Kindle Top 100 List several times, his first published book, 'Kevin and I in India', climbing as high as #5. In 2015 his children's book 'Ginger the Gangster Cat' won a Gold medal on the Wishing Shelf Independent Book Awards for 6 to 8 year olds, though this and the sequel 'Ginger the Buddha Cat' appeal as much to adults as to children. Frank writes to make people laugh...and, in his latest book 'The Clueless Companion', to consider the vagaries of life.

**Check out Frank's book store at http://frankkusybooks.weebly.com/

**Follow Frank on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/frank.kusy.5 .He loves to chat with readers.

**Follow him on Twitter at https://twitter.com/Wussyboy

**Or check out his blogs on GoodReads at https://www.goodreads.com/author_blog_posts/6569769-pushkar-get-blessed

WHAT READERS AND REVIEWERS ARE SAYING about Frank's books:

"Relentlessly honest, refreshingly uncontrived, KEVIN AND I IN INDIA is a diary that really works!" ~ The Sunday Tribune

"Once started, RUPEE MILLIONAIRES begs to be read in one sitting. It is full of flavour, especially the scents and scintillations of India as we've never read about them before, and satisfies on every level. ~ Grady Harp, Hall of Fame 'Vine' reviewer

"Well Frank, you've done it again - written a funny and almost too good to be true memoir. TOO YOUNG TO BE OLD: FROM CLAPHAM TO KATHMANDU is laugh out loud and introduces you to Kevin - his companion in India. Do yourself a favor and start reading this novel and I'm sure you will be eager to get your hands on the rest of his books." Joann R. Greene, Amazon reviewer

"Check out OFF THE BEATEN TRACK: MY CRAZY YEAR IN ASIA, I know you will enjoy the entertaining experiences only Kusy would remain alive to tell." ~ Valerie Caraotta, Top 1000 Amazon reviewer

"GINGER THE GANGSTER CAT is laugh out loud funny. Deserves to do for Mr Kusy what Simon's Cat has done for Mr Tofield. Cat Lit extraordinaire!" ~ Joshua Roebuck, Amazon reviewer

"'If you're a lover of cats and want a good light hearted read, GINGER THE BUDDHA CAT is just what you are looking for, but be warned it might just put you on your own path to enlightenment!' ~ David Milne, author

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Customers find this memoir well worth reading, with plenty of quirky humor and vivid descriptions that make it engaging. The book offers a brutally honest account of the author's experiences, and one customer notes how it helps readers better understand addictions. They appreciate the dual narrative approach, with one review highlighting how it presents a true-life drama without emotive slush.

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Customers find the book readable and well worth their time, with one customer describing it as a refreshing pleasure to read.

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"...He’d been in a labour camp. This was really interesting and really involving. Yet still that jokey feel from time to time...." Read more

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Customers enjoy the book's humor, particularly its quirky and clever dialogue, with one customer noting it makes them laugh out loud.

"...it is a memoir which grabs you, shocks you, shakes you and makes you laugh out loud - as Frank once again, and very cleverly, finds humour even in..." Read more

"Amusing, if a little repetitive - amazing the protagonists are still alive!" Read more

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Customers find the book emotionally engaging, describing it as poignant and emotionally charged, with one customer noting it has no overwhelming sense of hopelessness.

"...that this is a depressing memoir - on the contrary, it is a memoir which grabs you, shocks you, shakes you and makes you laugh out loud - as Frank..." Read more

"...He’d been in a labour camp. This was really interesting and really involving. Yet still that jokey feel from time to time...." Read more

"...how each partner struggles with their lives, and individual reflections on their fledgling marriage. I found the book utterly captivating...." Read more

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Customers appreciate the book's honesty, describing it as a brutally honest account, with one customer noting it is never over-gritty.

"...It is a brutally honest account of the author, and his wife’s, experiences in the early years of their marriage...." Read more

"...It’s a brutally honest account of how both he and his wife Madge descended into a hell of their own making fuelled by copious amounts of drugs...." Read more

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"...It is a terrific story filled with many examples of eloquent writing, and none more so than in the closing chapters...." Read more

"...all of Frank Kusy’s previous books and been captivated by his vivid descriptions and his marvellously witty dialogue...." Read more

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"...This is an incredible story and is a testament to just how much the human spirit can endure, and of course accomplish in the darkest of times...." Read more

"...It is a terrific story filled with many examples of eloquent writing, and none more so than in the closing chapters...." Read more

"...I love the way the narrative is told from both viewpoints, both Frank and Madge giving their own perspective of events...." Read more

"...The Reckless Years is a brilliant and unflinching retelling of the events that unfolded after the outrageous misfortune of his mother’s death, on..." Read more

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Customers find the book educational, with one mentioning it provides great insight and helps understand addictions, while another notes it grabs interest right away.

"...A sudden shock to the system, it grabs your interest right away. This is much darker than his other books. Powerful; the other side of Frank Kusy...." Read more

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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 27 April 2017
    Having read every one of Frank Kusy's other books and followed his amazing journey from working in a care home to becoming a market trader selling goods from India, I was chomping at the bit waiting for another memoir to come out! And it did not disappoint - it's an absolute cracker of a book and with a totally unexpected storyline! This is the story of how Frank's life spiraled out of control after his mother's death. To begin with, we are given some background history into Frank's parents' life which is really interesting and allows us to link events together later in the story. When Frank turns 40, his worried mother decides it's time he should be married and contacts a dating agency in London. This is where Frank meets Madge - his wife. In the second chapter Madge begins to tell her side of the story and talks of her initial, slightly disappointing impression of Frank on their first date! Frank's mother tragically passes away on the morning of what should be the best day of his life - his wedding day, Having only been together for 9 months, their honeymoon is a disaster as Frank begins shutting down and pushing Madge away as he tries to deal with his grief alone. In a bid to distract himself from the pain of losing his mother, and much to the frustration of Madge, Frank embarks on a mission during his honeymoon to check out suppliers with a view to selling wholesale goods again. Back home, Frank has a hard time adjusting to his new life with a wife after having been a bachelor for so long and is still consumed by sadness and guilt at losing his beloved mother. He eventually spirals into deep depression - pulling Madge down with him. Alcohol was their first drug of choice to numb the pain, but soon Frank and Madge turn to a variety of drugs to help them get through their difficult days. Their first foray into drugs had been on one summer's day in 1997 - at an allotment party, where Frank and Madge tried ecstasy. The result? Frank proposed to Madge! As their new, fragile married life rolls out before them, they find themselves turning to ecstasy again to experience that initial thrill and happiness they had once had. Soon a friend of Frank's (Justin) arrives on the scene and tempts them with harder drugs. During this dark period Frank still tries to pursue his writing career, but the drugs turn him into a broken man. At first he thinks the drugs are helping him and Madge, but he soon realises that the truth is very different. Madge had collapsed a few times in clubs and Frank had suffered a massive panic attack. Throughout this time, Frank is also battling with serious insomnia and attempts to to find a cure at a sleep clinic. He also makes an effort to improve his appearance by having a hair transplant. What makes this incredible story even more unique and readable, is that Madge tells the story from her perspective in alternating chapters. This makes you want to keep turning the page to get the 'full' story! Poor Madge, a university lecturer, did not expect herself to end up on drugs with a depressed husband who shut himself away. As if things weren't hard enough at home, Madge has to have a hysterectomy. The emotional stress becomes to much for Madge to bear alone and it eventually manifests itself in the form of depression. Madge ends up on Prozac. When Frank and Madge finally go straight, they realise they are complete strangers and have to get to know one another again. They embark on a mission to get fit and steer their life back on track. Frank soon discovers that the natural endorphins produced by the body when keeping a fit are far better than those produced by drugs! On Frank's 53rd birthday, Sparky the cat arrives, inspiring Frank to write again! This is an incredible story and is a testament to just how much the human spirit can endure, and of course accomplish in the darkest of times. Frank and Madge are an amazing couple! Please do not think that this is a depressing memoir - on the contrary, it is a memoir which grabs you, shocks you, shakes you and makes you laugh out loud - as Frank once again, and very cleverly, finds humour even in the most difficult times. His writing is addictive. His stories are incredible. The Recklesss Years is a book not to be missed.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 26 December 2019
    Amusing, if a little repetitive - amazing the protagonists are still alive!
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 18 October 2017
    So far so good i am a slow reader so havn,t finished it yet
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 28 February 2017
    I’ve read all of Frank Kusy’s previous books; these are primarily travel memoirs. This is quite a departure. Right from the opening stages I was thinking that this book will be totally unexpected to the regular Frank Kusy reader. A sudden shock to the system, it grabs your interest right away. This is much darker than his other books. Powerful; the other side of Frank Kusy. Emotions are running high. His mum has died, of all days, on his wedding day.

    There is some great background info about his mum fleeing Hungary with her father and she settled in London and met Frank's father, a Polish man. He’d been in a labour camp. This was really interesting and really involving. Yet still that jokey feel from time to time. From heart wrenching it soon moves to heart-warming when he tells of his mum and dad's relationship, and how his father constantly made his mum laugh. It’s all beautiful to read. It doesn't begin straight into the drugs etc. as you would expect. Then it made me smile where mum wants to get Frank married off. The switching emotions really keep you interested. This opening chapter about his mum was a delight. Emotion charged, poignant and with little bursts of humour too. This provides a very balanced read.

    This is written from both Frank and his wife's point of view with alternating pieces-I really liked how this was done. It’s a small point but I like the little broken hearts at the start of each chapter-a nice little touch, finishing off, presentation.

    I read all types of memoir and when I'm in the mood I do like to get my teeth into a really tough memoir-but I know a few readers sometimes say that they don't read what they term 'Misery memoirs'-so; I think with this author lightening things it does cater for the wider audience who don't want to wallow in a sad memoir.

    Another great read which I really enjoyed.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 14 October 2017
    Managed to get through first few chapters but unfortunately just not my kind of book.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 5 February 2018
    This doesn't deserve even one star. Don't waste your money on this diary. Luckily I didn't have to purchase it.
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  • Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 29 April 2017
    If you want a book that will toy with all your emotions and at times shock you to the core, then buy The Reckless Years.

    I am already a great fan of Frank Kusy’s writing, so when this book was published I bought it immediately. Despite the title, I’ll admit that I wasn’t fully prepared for the content. It is a brutally honest account of the author, and his wife’s, experiences in the early years of their marriage. A period saturated with drug and alcohol abuse, littered with dangerous relationships, problems with work and illness.

    The book is jointly told by the author and his wife. The technique, which I felt was extremely skilfully executed, also adds depth to the book. It gives the reader a great insight into how each partner struggles with their lives, and individual reflections on their fledgling marriage.

    I found the book utterly captivating. At times I giggled, I also came close to tears. There were also parts where I felt like yelling at the couple to save themselves from the incredibly destructive lifestyle they were caught up in. It’s exceptionally rare that a book has that effect on me.

    I hugely admire Frank Kusy for his truthful account, and believe the book is all the more interesting for it. It is a terrific story filled with many examples of eloquent writing, and none more so than in the closing chapters. I have no hesitation in recommending this bravely written book, it’s a superb 5* read.
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  • Barbara
    5.0 out of 5 stars A book about life and love. Written with a good dose of humor.
    Reviewed in Germany on 28 February 2017
    Years ago I coincidentally picked up "the rupee millionaire" by Frank Kusy and really liked it. I love biographies and I liked his style, so I got his new book "the reckless years..." and it's his best book so far. I utterly enjoy his writing style. It feels like a good chat, like somebody is telling you his life story. It's an easy read, entertaining, yet totally personal, gripping and heart warming,, occasionally sad but sometimes it also made me laugh. I think it's a very honest book about life and love. I highly recommend it. Besides, this story had to be told!
  • Vmp
    5.0 out of 5 stars Totally compelling
    Reviewed in the United States on 22 January 2018
    The first thing that the reader has to do when they start this book is to suspend any kind of moral judgement about author Frank Kusy's drug activities. The best approach is simply to read it...and be amazed.

    Written from both Frank's and his wife's perspectives in alternating chapters, this totally honest, unselfconscious memoir tells the story of how the couple descend into a nightmarish, drug taking cycle following their marriage. The trigger? Not the wedding itself, but the fact that Frank's mother died on that day too. I must say I wasn't sure what Frank actually felt for his mother. He seemed to be both devoted to her and frustrated by her, so because of the latter, it wasn't quite clear to me why her death should have cast him into such despair. What surprised me more, however, was that he was already forty when the period began, and over fifty when he finally managed to get himself out of it by discovering the joys of natural endorphins. The saddest part was that his wife (Madge), a spunky, clever Dutch academic, was so loyal to him that she followed suit and the pair of them nearly destroyed each other in the process. 

    I really liked the way the book was written (one chapter by Frank and the next by Madge), and I must say, I especially liked Madge's chapters. As an adoptive Nederlander, I recognised many of her lovely honest characteristics from my Dutch friends. Added to that, she made me laugh out loud at times. I have a feeling her culture had much to do with the fact she was mentally strong enough to survive the disaster (sorry, Mr Kusy) that her husband became. Luckily, all turns out well in the end, and Frank and Madge are now openly in love with each other, which is a wonderful outcome.

    Did I enjoy the book? Not really – how can one enjoy a story of self destruction? But I was fascinated by it and it could well give courage to others going through the same hell. It is very well written, sometimes very funny, and overall, quite gripping. In other words, a truly compelling read. Hats off for your honesty, Mr and Mrs Kusy. May you live a long and loving life together. After what you went through, you deserve it!
  • Amazon Customer
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great.
    Reviewed in Canada on 31 October 2017
    Arrived on time.
  • Elizabeth Moore
    5.0 out of 5 stars A Confronting Memoir
    Reviewed in Australia on 28 July 2017
    I found this memoir challenging. I thought that the author I knew from some doubtful and altogether unsanitary adventures in India would slide into mediocrity when writing about his marriage and domestic arrangements back in England. I was not prepared for the raw honesty and gritty details of two lives locked in a spiral of drug abuse and self doubt. Frank and his wife Madge take turn about with the chapters and their parallel recollections are unpleasant but compelling. At times it seems unthinkable that there might be a positive outcome, but it's worth reading to the final page.
  • Amazon Customer
    1.0 out of 5 stars Phaaaat!
    Reviewed in Canada on 16 November 2017
    HATEd it! Couldn't get through even the first few pages.

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